I’ve read a smattering of comments on some social media posts of well-known Christians or organizations that surprise me, though I am not altogether shocked. I’ve read a few recently condemning Sean Feucht, worship leader of the #Let Us Worship movement being held in cities across the United States.
And I’ve read condemnations of other Christian leaders, leaders who I whole-heartedly support and others whose teaching I take exception to—so I’ve wondered for myself, how do we as Christians approach or respond to the differences and divisiveness that are abounding amongst believers, yet honor Christ and obey His Word.
I believe we have to begin by having a relationship with our Father in heaven through faith in Jesus Christ as well as having an intimate knowledge of His Word. We also need to recognize the difference between attacking or condemning a person in contrast to exposing a false teaching or a lifestyle that doesn’t align with God’s righteousness.
There is a biblical process for confronting people we take issue with (and it doesn’t include personal attacks on social media!):
“If your brother sins against you, go and tell him his fault, between you and him alone. If he listens to you, you have gained your brother. But if he does not listen, take one or two others along with you, that every charge may be established by the evidence of two or three witnesses. If he refuses to listen to them, tell it to the church. And if he refuses to listen even to the church, let him be to you as a Gentile and a tax collector.” (Matthew 18:15-17)
We have an example in the book of Acts regarding a situation where someone who was teaching needed a little more information:
“Now a Jew named Apollos, a native of Alexandria, came to Ephesus. He was an eloquent man, competent in the Scriptures. He had been instructed in the way of the Lord. And being fervent in spirit, he spoke and taught accurately the things concerning Jesus, though he knew only the baptism of John. He began to speak boldly in the synagogue, but when Priscilla and Aquila heard him, they took him aside and explained to him the way of God more accurately. (Acts 18:24-26)
In another situation, rather than calling out some for their less than noble motivations in preaching the gospel, Paul’s response was this:
“Some indeed preach Christ from envy and rivalry, but others from good will. The latter do it out of love, knowing that I am put here for the defense of the gospel. The former proclaim Christ out of selfish ambition, not sincerely but thinking to afflict me in my imprisonment. What then? Only that in every way, whether in pretense or in truth, Christ is proclaimed, and in that I rejoice.” (Philippians 1:15-18)
The tone of some comments often reveal the spirit (or Spirit) behind them. For instance, “…the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, [and] self-control.” (Galatians 5:22,23)
…and “The good person out of the good treasure of his heart produces good, and the evil person out of his evil treasure produces evil, for out of the abundance of the heart his mouth speaks.” (Luke 6:45)
As familiar as we are with scriptures that tell us not to judge others, such as, “Judge not, and you will not be judged; condemn not, and you will not be condemned; forgive, and you will be forgiven…,” (Luke 6:37), and, “Who are you to pass judgment on the servant of another? It is before his own master that he stands or falls. And he will be upheld, for the Lord is able to make him stand,” (Romans 14:4), it is still easy to fall into the trap of condemning others. It is easy to hear a report, whether true or not, whether complete or edited to bias opinion, or see an action, or hear a comment and let those words and actions feed our own prejudices.
Remember, “…For the Lord sees not as man sees: man looks on the outward appearance, but the Lord looks on the heart.” (1 Samuel 16:7)
Here is a precious truth that we as Christians get to embrace, and a grace we must extend to others:
“…For God did not send His Son into the world to condemn the world, but in order that the world might be saved through Him.” (John 3:17)
“There is therefore now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus.” (Romans 8:1)
My heart aches when I hear the words and see the comments of people professing to be Christians yet echoing the anger, hatred, and vitriol of the world. We’re not supposed to be like them, right? I recognize attitudes of self-righteousness and pride in so many interactions (and I’ve seen them in myself), but those are not characteristics Jesus used to identify His disciples. Instead, this is what He said, “By this all people will know that you are my disciples, if you have love for one another.” (John 13:35)

